Dating Indian Men

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By gmmurgirl

Source: Hoonur

A lover like no other?

Dating an Indian man for a woman coming from another cultural background can be the most exciting experience and yet many of these relationships fail and this has left many women with unanswered questions. But then again, no one should generalize about Indian men as a whole. In this age when interracial dating is no longer new, it is no surprise that women would find themselves enamored with an Indian men.

As with dating different races, there are stereotypes about Indian men in general, this from the eyes of an outsider. For one, the practice of arranged marriages still persists for many Indian families whether in India of those who migrated to the west. Indian men are still getting arranged for the marriage. Though this practice may not be as prevalent in Indians who had migrated to the western countries, no denying that many Indian families prefer to marry their sons to someone they prefer and of course of the same background and culture. And yet, for one reason or another, some westernized Indian men would say that love marriages are permitted already in their families. To save a woman from a heartbreak, as with men from all races, women must take great caution before holding on to a promise of marriage or a word of love most specifically if you are of another race. When it is cleat that your relationships seems to be heading somewhere, a woman must inquire from the Indian boyfriend how is family perceives the relationship.

Indian men are a breed of their own. Indian males are seen to be more in touch with their emotions, they are deemed to be more sensitive than your regular male. They are generally close to their mom hence you can expect them to be more attune with female emotions and this could be a great come on for most women the first time. Who does not want a guy to be sensitive and know what you feel like women do. It is indeed true and it would really be refreshing for a foreign woman to be wooed by an Indian male who is not afraid to show his emotions nor show his soft and caring side in the age where most men would rather play the masculine image to the fullest.


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However, Indian males put a high premium on their family and reputation and would not want to put the family into shame hence, this should be kept in mind when you are dating an Indian man because you might be rooting for a man that has already an arranged marriage back in India. One must be sure of his intentions to save yourself from high hopes and expectations of a future together.

Many Indian men are very competitive and intelligent and you can find them schooled in variety of professions such as medicine, engineering and information technology. The intelligence attracts a lot of women. Moreover, Indian males can be said to be very good with words. This is so since their affinity to the family matriarch taught them what matters to a woman. Apparently, a lot of women are drawn to these qualities but take care that this will not be used to falsely lure women.

All in all, dating an Indian man can be a truly different and wonderful experience. It will bring you another perspective from a different side of the world that one is not aware of before. As with any relationship with any guy, Indian or not, a woman must exercise good judgement in finding out the real intentions of a guy before falling madly in love with him Indian or not.

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sweeaun Level 1 Commenter 4 months ago

Are you speaking from experience?

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