10 Signs a Guy Loves You Even Though He Doesn't Admit It Yet

So you are going out exclusively with this one particular guy and everything seems to be going great. He is nice to you, there is chemistry, and you have great times together. Now you feel that you are falling for him but there is one problem. You have no idea how he really feels about you because he does not say anything about it, if at all.

Unlike women, men are not as verbally expressive when it comes to admitting their feelings toward a girl. It is any of these reasons: it is too early in the relationship, he is afraid to commit, or he has been hurt in the past and fears rejection, or simply he is being like most guys, they do rather than say what they really feel. But don't fret, it is not rocket science to find out how a guy really feels for you. Simple things can be a give away as to what he is keeping bottled inside his heart, so girls, are you ready?

1. He loves being with you and makes every excuse just to see you.

A guy who would do anything just to be able to spend time with you already gives a clue that he feels much more than friendship. In short, he wants you more than being his buddy. If a guy singles you out and opts to spend one-on-one quality time with you and he does not mind giving up his weekend romp with the boys, that is a sure give away that he is really interested in you, for good.

It can be as simple as skipping some important event just so he can see you or he schedules special time with you a month or so before it happens. This shows that he plans to see you for the long term, a definite sign that you are very special to him. Well, not unless he is trying to sell you something.

2. He makes an effort to remember special dates and occasions.

Women remember birthdays, anniversaries and other special occasions, but for a man to actually remember your birthday and ensure to make it unforgettable for you, is a hint of how he feels about you. If a guy does something really sweet and you know it's not in his usual nature to do such like singing you a "Happy Birthday" song to make you smile, knowing that he can barely carry a tune, that is really something.

If he takes the time to gift you with things that is way beyond his means knowing it is something you really love, that just means that you've been on his mind (and more) and that he wants nothing but the best for you on this special day. What is more telling than that? Or when there is really no special occasion and a guy would just treat you or give you something he happens to see in the store, because he remembers and knows you like it.

3. He remembers things you say, things you like or things you do.

One word comes to mind, that guy is definitely 'interested in you. If a guy remembers the most trivial things such as a special song, your favorite movie, your choice of coffee, or even the color of your dress the first night you met. it is very likely that he has been keeping you in his thoughts without really admitting it. When a guy tells you that your face pop into his head everytime he hears Katy Perry songs (and she is your favorite), you know he is hooked! Additional hint, if he himself starts humming it himself when he hears it.

4. He makes an extra effort to make you feel good when you had a bad day.

When a guy is so concerned about how you feel, he becomes sensitive to your mood. Like when you are having a bad day and he would go to great lengths to make you feel good and make you smile, that tells you that he wants nothing else but your happiness.

A simple gesture like giving you a ride or taking you to a place nice despite his heavy schedule just so to take your mind away from what was bothering you. Or even when he takes time to hear out what drove you crazy that day. This is something not any guy would do for anyone unless of course he cares and has strong feelings for you.

5. He feels it is natural to be protective of you.

Simple things that a guy does to help you feel protected can say a lot of how he feels about you. If he makes sure that you won't be in harms way, or can be as simple as him suddenly having the urge to grab your hand when you cross a busy street, or making sure you don't walk on the danger side, or instinctively shields you from any harm by walking side by side with you shows his protective and nurturing, a hint that he sees you as someone more than a mere friend.

6. He makes intense eye contact when he talks to you.

As they say, the eye is the window to the soul. If a guy makes it a point to make eye contact when talking to you instead of his gaze turning somewhere, he could be telling that he is sincere in his intentions. A hint of what his heart really contains but is not ready to admit yet.

7. He wants to know more about you, your family, interests, likes, dislikes, in short, everything that has to do with "YOU".

Not unless he is a private investigator singling you out as a suspect for some crime, when a guy actually wants to know more about you, what you do, what you don't like, who your friends are, he is in fact subliminally trying to tell you that he wants to be part of your life, permanently. This could be a hint as to how he really feels about you.

8. He talks about the future -- with you, in it.

Guys will NEVER, EVER talk about future plans with anyone they just had a first date with or with anyone they don't have any plans of getting serious with. So if he talks about the future like where he wants to live ten years from now, and then ask you any ideas about it or if you also want that. He is actually giving you the go-signal or the invitation to be part of his life.

9. He gets upset that you don't return his calls or texts, of if you don't answer his calls, or when your phone is off or out of reach, but tries not show it.

Simple things that might be harmless but ticks off his jealousy would give you a clue that he sees you as someone much more than a steady date. If a guy loves you, it is but natural that he gets jealous when he thinks that you might be spending some of your valuable time with another person when you don't bother to return his calls or messages.

If he gets jealous with the idea of you going out with another guy is a clear sign that he sees you more than a friend. But then of course he would not admit it to you directly, but his actions showing that he is upset when you don't answer his calls should be a sign that he is definitely into you.

10. He likes to touch and show his fondness for you.

Of course sexual attraction cannot be denied but when a man is in love, he would often touch you in a very special way that shows his fondness (not sexual) as simple as gently caressing your face for no reason, or touching your hair or or gently brushing it off your face. It is silently telling you the affection he has for you indirectly.

It could be a playful gesture, such as giving you a quick kiss before you even know what's happening and even a seemingly innocent touch like wanting to hold your hands in public while walking, supporting your back protectively while crossing the street, etc.

Truly, for a lot of guys, actions speak louder than words, so forget about forcing him to chalk out what he really feels, because in the end, what really matters is how he expresses it. And it is up you to decipher his feelings. Sometimes, you just have to be sensitive enough to know what is going on and you won't be needing words to know that a guy loves you even if he doesn't want to admit it yet.